Dating in France as an English speaker
French dating sites are, unsurprisingly, in French. Meetic, DisonsDemain and eDarling all run in French, and so do the two adult sites in our list. The exception is DateMyAge, which is in English and aimed at singles over 40. For many expats, that single fact narrows the choice quickly: if your French is basic, DateMyAge is the only site here you can use comfortably from day one.
In Paris, Lyon, Bordeaux or Toulouse you will meet French people happy to chat in English, and in the Dordogne, Provence or Brittany there are established English-speaking communities. Still, a profile with even a few sentences in French gets a warmer response. French dating also has its own codes: people often skip the formal idea of dating and simply see each other, exclusivity can be assumed rather than discussed, and a first meeting over a drink at a café terrace is the norm.
Apps or a paid French dating site?
Tinder, Hinge, Bumble and happn are the usual apps in French cities. They suit people in their twenties and early thirties and anyone open to see what happens. If you want a relationship, or you are over 40, a paid site gives you a different audience: people who filled in a full profile, sometimes a personality test, and chose to pay to talk.
What the subscription costs and what it unlocks
For France, here are the prices we recorded. They change with promotions and plan length, so treat them as a reference and check the payment page.
- Meetic, €24.99/month: profile, browsing and likes before paying; sending and reading messages requires the subscription.
- DisonsDemain, €16/month: same model, for over-50s.
- eDarling, €14.90/month: personality test and match suggestions first; the subscription unlocks photos and messages.
- DateMyAge, €11.99 (credits): no monthly plan; you buy credits to send messages and use video chat.
The price gap is real. Meetic costs the most per month but gives you the freedom to search and choose for yourself. eDarling costs less but chooses your matches for you. DateMyAge works on credits, so the cost depends on how much you write.
Which French dating site for your age and goal
25 to 49, serious: Meetic
Meetic leads our ranking. It is a general site focused on serious relationships, best for city dwellers who like to search with filters. You need to be comfortable with French.
Over 50: DisonsDemain
DisonsDemain is reserved for over-50s. Everyone is in the same stage of life, the site is simple, and the monthly price is lower than Meetic.
Over 40, long-term: eDarling
eDarling suits people who want fewer, better-matched suggestions instead of browsing. Photos stay hidden until you subscribe, so read the profiles carefully first.
Over 40, little or no French: DateMyAge
DateMyAge is in English. It is a practical choice for retirees and long-stay expats who want to meet people without struggling with the interface. Credits mean you pay for what you use rather than a fixed monthly plan.
Casual: Femme Libérée and Coup d’un soir
Both are adult sites in French for casual encounters. Femme Libérée has a €1.04 trial for men; Coup d’un soir uses credits, listed at €9.
Practical advice before you pay
- Look before you pay. Spend a few days browsing or reading suggestions.
- Trials become subscriptions. A low-priced trial usually leads to a regular plan if you do nothing. Read what the trial turns into and when.
- Auto-renewal. Monthly and longer plans renew automatically. Turn off renewal in your account settings right after subscribing if you want to decide later.
- Plan length. Longer plans cost less per month but are paid upfront. Start with one month if you are unsure.
- Credits. On credit-based sites, set yourself a budget and track how fast credits go.
- Scams. Never send money or share bank details with someone you have not met. Report profiles that push you off the site straight away.
Looking to meet French singles from abroad?
Some people searching for French dating sites live outside France and want to meet a French partner. Sites like Meetic or eDarling connect people by location, so they work best once you are in France or about to move. DateMyAge, being in English, is easier to use from abroad, but meeting in person still means travelling.
Dating sites in France: FAQ
Which dating site is most popular in France?
Meetic is the mainstream name for serious dating and comes first in our ranking. Tinder, Hinge, Bumble and happn are the apps you will hear about most.
Are there dating sites in English in France?
Among the sites we rank, DateMyAge is in English. Meetic, DisonsDemain and eDarling are in French, though you can write your profile in English.
How much does a dating site cost in France?
Based on the prices we recorded: Meetic €24.99 per month, DisonsDemain €16 per month, eDarling €14.90 per month, and DateMyAge credits at €11.99. Prices change with offers and plan length.
Which French dating site is best for over 50s?
DisonsDemain, built for over-50s. If your French is limited, DateMyAge is the English-language option for over-40s.
How do I cancel a dating site subscription in France?
Turn off automatic renewal in your account settings before the end of the period. If you paid through the App Store or Google Play, cancel there.





