Best Dating Sites & Apps in Singapore

Dating in Singapore: busy lives, small island

Singapore is compact, connected and very busy. Long working hours, a large expat population and the fact that many people live with family in HDB flats or share condos all shape how singles meet. English is the working language, so most dating apps in Singapore are used in English, alongside Mandarin, Malay and Tamil in daily life. Public norms are fairly conservative, and many people prefer to get to know someone online before a first coffee or dinner.

Let us be honest about the market. If you are under 35 and open to seeing where things go, the free swipe apps, Tinder, Bumble and Badoo, are where most of your peers are. The dating sites in Singapore that we rank serve a different need: they are for people who want a relationship and would rather receive a handful of compatible suggestions than spend evenings swiping.

Is paying worth it in Singapore?

On each of the five sites you can join, complete the personality test and receive suggestions without paying. On be2, 40sDating, Singles50 and 50sDating, photos and messaging are part of the paid membership. EliteSingles lets free members build a full profile, get daily suggestions and send smiles and likes; photos remain blurred and messaging requires a subscription.

Because the island is small, distance is rarely the issue. What matters is whether the people suggested to you share your intentions, your age range and, for many, your plans to stay in Singapore. Read a week of suggestions before deciding. If several profiles feel like a genuine fit, a membership saves you time. If not, try the next site on the list.

Who each site is for

Relationship-minded singles from 25

be2 leads our ranking. Its matching is built on personality, which suits people who find app profiles too superficial and want to know whether values line up before the first meeting.

Professionals and expats from 35

EliteSingles, second in our ranking, targets educated professionals. In a city full of finance, tech and regional headquarters, it suits people whose schedule leaves little room for small talk with poorly matched strangers, locals and foreigners alike.

In your forties

40sDating is for singles from 40. It works well for people who are divorced, have children or simply feel out of place on apps aimed at a much younger crowd.

Over 50

This is where the paid sites are strongest compared with the apps. Singles50 and 50sDating both focus on over 50s with test-based suggestions. Join both for free, compare who you are offered, and keep the one whose matches feel closer to what you want.

Before you subscribe

• Pick a realistic length. Longer plans lower the monthly cost but are paid for in full. Start shorter if you are new to online dating.
• Turn off renewal right away. Memberships usually extend themselves automatically. Disabling renewal does not cut your current access.
• Check the currency. Some sites charge in a currency other than Singapore dollars, and your card may add a fee.
• Cancel where you paid. App store subscriptions are cancelled in the store; website subscriptions in your account. Keep the confirmation.

Safety and scams

Singapore police regularly warn about online love scams, often linked to fake investment or cryptocurrency schemes. A new match who soon talks about trading platforms, asks you to transfer money or cannot meet because they are always overseas is a warning sign. Never send money to someone you have only met online, insist on a video call, and meet in a busy public place such as a café or a mall for the first date.

New to Singapore?

All five sites run in English, so expats can sign up from day one. Enter Singapore as your location so suggestions reflect where you actually live, and be clear in your profile about how long you plan to stay.

Dating apps in Singapore: FAQ

What is the best dating app in Singapore for a serious relationship?

be2 is first in our ranking, followed by EliteSingles for professionals from 35. Both focus on compatibility rather than swiping.

Which free dating apps are popular in Singapore?

Tinder, Bumble and Badoo are widely used, especially by people under 35. They are free to use, but they are less focused on long-term relationships.

Are there dating sites in Singapore for over 50s?

Yes. Singles50 and 50sDating are built for over 50s, and 40sDating covers people from 40.

Can I see photos without paying?

Not on the five sites in our ranking. You can complete the test and read your suggestions for free, but clear photos and messaging come with a membership.

Are these sites good for expats in Singapore?

Yes. They are all in English, and EliteSingles in particular attracts international professionals. Set your location to Singapore when you register.